Sun Ketu conjunction in 7th house
KETU is Shri Ganesha! And so SUN KETU – is simply an indication from Lord Ganesha to drop your EGO – and to realize your ‘self’!
But this is possible for a man of awareness. For a meditative man – this conjunction is a blessing in disguise! Why I used the word ‘disguise’ – because this conjunction takes a man through certain sufferings – leading finally to the ‘light’ of consciousness!
“Suffering is the sole origin of consciousness” – Fyoder Dostoevsky
Suffering has a noble purpose – the evolution of consciousness and the burning up of EGO!
So this conjunction can raise a man to higher level of consciousness. Yes – he has to die first – just to REBORN!
Nicodemus was a great scholar of Jerusalem – he was the wealthiest man of the town – he was 70 yrs old and he would often hear about this young man called Jesus – many people were cured by this strange man who would just move around the town – an intense curiosity arose within him – but how can he go and meet Jesus! What will the people of the town say – that a great scholar is going to seek truth from a carpenter’s son? That would not look good. So on a dark night – when the whole town has gone asleep – Nicodemus sets out to meet Jesus – he finds Jesus sitting under a tree – deeply absorbed i meditation – Nicodemus comes and bows before Jesus – Jesus says “ Why have you come? What is it that you want from me?
And Nicodemus says “ I have come to seek Truth, to find from you – on how to seek God – how to experience God?”
And Jesus says “Nicodemus – even to meet ME – you have chosen a dark night – how would you face God? To experience God – you have to reborn!”
Nicodemus says “ What does Reborn means?”
And Jesus says “ You have to drop all your EGO, your Learning, your preconceived notions – you have to let go all that you have accumulated – you have to Reborn!”
Your first birth is physical – your second birth is spiritual – to Reborn means the death of your material world and the birth of your spiritual world!
Of course the transition is not easy. And so for an EVOLVED SOUL – the SUN+KETU conjunction becomes a blessing – it has the strength to transform Nicodemus into Saint Nicodemus – it has the strength to transform the thief RATNAKAR into SAINT VALMIKI – it has the strength to transform the arrogant SAUL into SAINT PAUL!
You see – it is not at all a bad conjunction it can lead an EVOLVED SOUL to many wonderful spiritual experiences – wonderful meditative experiences!
BUT problems come to a soul that is still not evolved – and is operating on the BASE level – here it leads to miseries, insults, setbacks – and the person gets frustrated often!
So to experience the positive results of this divine conjunction – one has to be more meditative, more introspective – and then there is a song to it!
So understand the depth of this placement – it *turns* positive based on your receptive strength!
Now coming to your question – you have to set your expectation in regards to marriage – at a very basic level. Don’t expect much happiness or much glory through marriage – once you limit your expectations in regards to marriage – you will not be disturbed by this conjunction – else you will suffer!
“It is expectation that keeps your mind continuously spinning thoughts. It is expectation that keeps you tense. It is expectation, when not fulfilled, that makes you feel frustrated, miserable. Drop expectation and meditation will flower, but it can flower only when you are not expecting.” – Osho
So you see – this conjunction is simply an indication to set your expectation regarding marriage or relationship to a certain limit.
If you know that the ‘water-supply’ is going to be for few hours only – then you don’t make face or suffer. You *know* – you are ‘alerted’ and so you are now mentally ready!
And so—my answer is simply to ‘alert’ you!
Jai Shri Ganesha. Jai Guru.